A Girl’s Monologue: Three years of college, five painless abortions
My boyfriend treating me like this, what should I do???
I am a university student in Xi’an. This year I am a senior, and I am from Hubei Province.
When I was in my first year, my current boyfriend pursued me. At the time, he was very sincere and what more, I didn’t think find him annoying, so we started to date. Two months later, he rented an apartment outside of campus, and we began to live together. Not long later, I became pregnant. In order to let me have a painless abortion, he spent all of the money on his bank card meant for his living expenses and borrowed money from his schoolmates. At the time, he told me that he wanted me to worry about nothing. After the baby was aborted – maybe it was because of guilt – he cried, and so did I.
Shocking. Been shaking my head all lunch hour.
It shows how uneducated they are in China and how the old taboos still exist.
The man takes no responsibility. He just want shis sex and when the girl is pregnant, it's her fault.
And also the old taboo. "A women who has had abortions is now imcomplete and no longer desired by men. Someone tell the Chinese that it's almost 2009.
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This is a bit unclear, did the bf push her to have teh abortion? She seems upset, but I can't tell if that's because the situation sucks or because she didn't want the abortion.
The situation sucks because she's pregnant. She can't tell her family cause she will be disowned. She can't leave him because she will be 'broken'. And he doesn't want the baby but doesn't want to use a condom.
She doesn't have much choice. That's how some relationships are.
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